Kama Sutra: Living the Sensuous Lifestyle, Part 1

It is true that The Kama Sutra is a sex manual instrumental for those who want to get it on with their partner. But it is much more than that.

The Kama Sutra is not only the Hindu guide to lovemaking, but considered a masterpiece about human sexual behavior,etiquette and relationships. It is the perfect point of reference for every independent escort and hobbyist who want to become connoisseurs of sensual pleasure. There are several themes that weave the fabric of TheKama Sutra. Let’s take a cursory look at some of them:

Confidence prevails over sexual prowess

It is not about how good a man is at pleasing his lover but about how he can build confidence in his partner. A man who builds confidence in his partner will make her more receptive to his advances. This is his primary responsibility when seducing his lover. Roles are reversed with regard to independent escorts. The Kama Sutrabelieves that courtesans (or companions) are necessary components of society to build men’s confidence (this subject will be explored in a future article).

Persistence will win a woman

The Kama Sutra preaches persistence over “easy” love, natural mates and biological instinct. Whether a hobbyist or not, a man should realize that every woman requires persistent attention to break down her defenses and win her over. What better way to enhance intimacy? While viewed as discriminatory by some, learning the lessons of The Kama Sutra will enable a man to get any woman he wants. See More...

How to Marry an Escort

You have met the perfect escort. She is your soul mate, beautiful inside and out. What’s more, the two of you have fallen in love! How do you deal with her job? This week’s article will talk about a plan of action when a gentleman wants to marry an escort.

As a hobbyist, you have fallen in love with an escort. The emotion and physical gratification bestowed upon a gentleman from such feminine perfection can be overwhelming, leaving your emotions in a state of total confusion. If the love is genuine and not coated with infatuation, the two of you will inevitably face decisions on adapting your respective lifestyles to join together in some form of marriage (spiritual, traditional, religious). Though they do exist, successful escort marriages are far and few between that form lasting relationships in which the escort continues to entertain other gentlemen in what would constitute a non conventional relationship. As a soon-to-be-retired hobbyist, below are a few questions to ask yourself after your heart has riveted your world and taken the lead:

Will she stop escorting?

If your new love does not enjoy her work in the entertainment industry, then it will be easier for her to retire. But if she is rather vested in what she does and has a tendency to bond more intimately with friends, it is possible that she will find it a little more difficult to break away permanently.

Is she addicted to a lucrative income and luxurious lifestyle?

A companion who enjoys her career as a professional entertainer may find the lifestyle flattering and rewarding. If you as her new found love can match that comfort level then the strength of transitioning into marriage is strong. Such a situation does not render you a sugar daddy or her asugar baby for that matter because love forms the foundation.

Is she attached to relationships that define her escort identity?

Many companions form durable friendships with their gentlemen friends that shape their individuality as entertainers and confidantes. Much of their time spent together includes plush entertainmentand opulent travel reinforced by gentlemanly attention that nurtures and flatters their egos. While entering into a marriage by two people from any type of background can be challenging in today’s complicated world, doing so by an escort can be rigorous. Marital partners should be prepared to acknowledge awareness of each others’ pasts and be prepared to meet their respective needs to the best of their abilities. See More...

Quieting Holiday Loneliness with a GFE

Amidst happy lovers bundled arm in arm, Christmas carols resonating throughout the city and holiday shoppers bustling at the mall quietly mingle the lonely souls of manyhobbyists

They show us what they want us to see: smiling faces, secure demeanors and professional composure. Yet beneath the surface dwells a state of unfulfillment in their homes. They experience lack of love andintimacy in dormant marriages that have been frozen for years. These hobbyists coexist with their wives in a barren world of monotony, mortgage payments and facades of false happiness. On a darker side, their marriages suffer from arguments or worse, fighting, separation and divorce.

Not all hobbyists are necessarily out to turn a few tricks or on a more perverse note take advantage of women as independent escorts

There are a lot of good men (whether single or not) who dabble in the demimonde of adult entertainment out of yearning for genuine companionship that surpasses the mere physical aspect associated with escorts. Herein lies the reality that shatters the stigma attached to independent escorting. These men have a hunger to satisfy their needs for closeness and understanding in a loving and non judgmental environment offered by gorgeous companions who believe in the girl friend experience.

What exactly is the girlfriend experience?

It means different things to different people. The term has evolved since its origin to the point that some independent escorts do not want to be associated with the acronym or any other label that might pool them with all the rest. Many escorts use it as a marketing tool while others genuinely offer the girlfriend experience. The modern day, successful GFE possesses sophisticated, psychological insight and a charismatic talent for attracting and bonding with her clients. Often times, hobbyist andcompanion become close friends, blurring the lines between paid companionship and true camaraderie. When such a relationship reaches this heightened level of intimate stability, it may stabilize into what is known as a sugar daddy/sugar baby arrangement or simply an ongoing tryst. See More... http://www.miamicitygirls.com/

A Hard Look at Why Men Cheat

Science says that men cheat because they want to. But there are logical (though perhaps unacceptable to some) reasons surrounding this ‘impulse’ why a man cheats or chooses to entertain the affections of another woman when he is involved in a marriage or committed relationship. He is not necessarily a hobbyist though his sensual findings may lead him to hone his escapades into ahobby within the world of beautifulescorts. As human beings we are taught from a young age to mate for life. Is this natural given that the divorce rate is so high in the States?

She’s not putting out

Often, something happens in a marriage or relationship in which both parties reach a stalemate in terms of sex. It happens often on the woman’s side where she simply looses interest in intimacy with her husband. It could be that she gains weight after mothering their children and feels undesirable, her husband becomes unattractive in her eyes after the newness wears off or the stress and anxiety of daily living withers away at her libido. While a wife may make peace within her sexless marriage, the husband may seek to quell his naturalistic needs with the girlfriend attention of a companion.

Underscoring your manhood

Something happens to a man when he reaches andropause, the change of life for males, the equivalent of menopause in women. In efforts to recapture his zest for life, he seeks to re-discover what once came so naturally in his virile years. There are many companions or courtesans who make a huge impact in the life of a gentleman in replenishing his self-confidence and restoring his old sense of self. Of course, there are always the likes of Viagra, cialis or levitra to aid in testosterone production which complement the sweeter side of bonding behind closed doors that shall remain unmentioned. Sugar daddies, you know who you are.

Won’t divorce until the kids are in college

In the olden days, marriage represented an idealistic notion, the fusion of two souls forever. While there are those couples who continue to perfect this crusade by the grace of God, others not so successful embrace a tangle of family and financial obligations by fulfilling their unmet carnal needs with outside sources known as independent escorts. For many, it is simply a better socioeconomic alternative (sometimes quietly accepted by the Mrs.) to stay in a hapless marriage and seek gratification outside of wedlock until financial or family obligations justify otherwise. See More...

The Easter Bunny Wants to Entertain You!

For many of us, Easter is a time that carries sacred connotations. For others, spending moments with loved ones or frolicking on an egg hunt with the kids is what the holiday is all about. But we are talking about a different kind of Easter bunny.

We all have secular interests as well, right? Beyond the traditional, we think the new spring season is a time to partake in some erotic intimacy glittering with lots of laughter and good times.

City Girls is rife with soft, sexy bunnies

In our world, pleasure is wild and sweet. Who needs a holiday to celebrate? Just imagine your own private gala with a prized jewel of a woman regaled in luxurious lingerie and sinfully high heels. Think of a lavish evening of living life to the hilt with a sumptuous independent escort! What hobbyistwould not gain 10 years of vivacious living?

Sweet, sassy or naughty knockouts – take your pick!

Velvet kisses, flirtatious banter and scorching good looks will leave you drenched in ecstasy and deliriously wondering if you are still on this earth. Independent escorts at City Girls are well endowed with captivating beauty that empowers every man with a pulse.

Where does a hobbyist go to find an abundance of vibrant beauties?

Coming to City Girls is like walking into a gourmet chocolate boutique when you have an addiction to chocolate! Everyindependent escort is like Christmas, Easter and Valentine’s Day wrapped all into one succulent package. After you have visually tasted them all, you just might come full circle and still be unable to make a decision! Shucks, guys. Make your life easy. If you are a first time hobbyist, just call City Girls and let them arrange a date for you! See More...

Hobbying with a Pure Conscience

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Why do men seek the company of escorts? The reasons are many. Those women who specialize in professionaldating provide a valuable service to gentlemen whose motivations are quite justifiable. Let us take a closer look.

The traveling business man with no time to pursue a conventional date

There are those men who travel for business and desire to be with a woman at a specific time and place. They do not have the schedule or tolerance to deal with the hassles or games associated with regular dating. In this case, dating an independent escort makes total sense. If he is paying for her time and company, then he may want her to provide desert after dinner. He can decide how he wants the evening to end. In any case, the encounter is neat, clean and organized and fits within his rigid schedule.

The married man searching for something more

He has children, family, a mortgage and a circle of close friends. Breaking the marriage is absolutely out of the question for psychological and financial reasons. He may love his wife and they might even be close friends. However, behind closed doors, the marriage suffers from neglect and dissatisfaction. There is a strong element of intimate unhappiness. As an alternative to divorce, it is much more convenient to seek the company of an escort who tailors herself to his needs. Often, the relationship is one based upon companionship and deep intimacy.

The guy who wants a guaranteed good time

He can be a devilishly handsome single man, a successful and distinguished executive or a combination. He prefers to find his companion online according to his list of personal specifications. He is a perfectionist when it comes to women. He expects his date to be splendidly dressed and impeccably manicured. He is aroused not only by her fabulous figure but her gracious and classy demeanor. Behind closed doors, she will do most anything to satisfy his desires. She is the epitome of intimacy and romance. This man realizes that the benefits of dating an escort far exceed that of a conventional date in both time and consideration. See More...

Categorizing the Hobbyist

From our perspective, there are all sorts of men who choose to see independent escorts. Their reasons vary greatly.

They are not necessarily hobbyists though many do fit the ticket. Then of course, there are the exceptions that are not shaped by any mold. We thought it would be interesting to consider the types that City Girls encounters often.

New girl client

In our case, we see this gentleman often. That’s because many of the independent escorts who are a part of the CG Club fall under the guise of TOFTT (Take One for The Team). They are spectacular and come highly recommended. However, they may still be considered ‘new’ to many men in the world of adult entertainment. Perhaps more common in controlled establishments (City Girls is a private club), new girls may fall victim to the Bottom Fish Client (see below). These hobbyists may attempt to exploit the new girl and even abuse her and endanger her life. Having not been around long enough to get her ‘escort wings’, she’s finished before she’s begun. Naturally, City Girls turns their back on these types of guys. We tend to shield our independent escorts with as much knowledge and guidance as possible.

Married man

He chooses the company of a companion not because his marriage is happy. Most often, he and his wife co-exist in a glorified roommate situation. The marriage is loveless and totally lacks intimacy. Or, the ties that bind are financial in nature and there might be children involved in a household where divorce is unconscionable. So the marriage dwells in a hapless state. This gentleman seeks emotional, physical and psychological fulfillment from a beautiful provider. She is the best in her field offering intimacy and camaraderie in a genuine capacity. It is common for these male types to be endlessly romantic, seeking the most genuine of girl friend experiences. The lines between a professional arrangement and love relationship are sometimes blurred. While he may not fit the structured definition of a sugar daddy, the relationship may naturally flow into a hybrid version. See More...