Sunday, May 25, 2014

Kama Sutra: Living the Sensuous Lifestyle, Part 1

It is true that The Kama Sutra is a sex manual instrumental for those who want to get it on with their partner. But it is much more than that.

The Kama Sutra is not only the Hindu guide to lovemaking, but considered a masterpiece about human sexual behavior,etiquette and relationships. It is the perfect point of reference for every independent escort and hobbyist who want to become connoisseurs of sensual pleasure. There are several themes that weave the fabric of TheKama Sutra. Let’s take a cursory look at some of them:

Confidence prevails over sexual prowess

It is not about how good a man is at pleasing his lover but about how he can build confidence in his partner. A man who builds confidence in his partner will make her more receptive to his advances. This is his primary responsibility when seducing his loverRoles are reversed with regard to independent escorts. The Kama Sutrabelieves that courtesans (or companions) are necessary components of society to build men’s confidence (this subject will be explored in a future article).

Persistence will win a woman

The Kama Sutra preaches persistence over “easy” love, natural mates and biological instinct. Whether a hobbyist or not, a man should realize that every woman requires persistent attention to break down her defenses and win her over. What better way to enhance intimacy? While viewed as discriminatory by some, learning the lessons of The Kama Sutra will enable a man to get any woman he wants. See More...
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Tuesday, May 6, 2014

How to Marry an Escort

You have met the perfect escort. She is your soul mate, beautiful inside and out. What’s more, the two of you have fallen in love! How do you deal with her job? This week’s article will talk about a plan of action when a gentleman wants to marry an escort.

As a hobbyist, you have fallen in love with an escort. The emotion and physical gratification bestowed upon a gentleman from such feminine perfection can be overwhelming, leaving your emotions in a state of total confusion. If the love is genuine and not coated with infatuation, the two of you will inevitably face decisions on adapting your respective lifestyles to join together in some form of marriage (spiritual, traditional, religious). Though they do exist, successful escort marriages are far and few between that form lasting relationships in which the escort continues to entertain other gentlemen in what would constitute a non conventional relationship. As a soon-to-be-retired hobbyist, below are a few questions to ask yourself after your heart has riveted your world and taken the lead:

Will she stop escorting?

If your new love does not enjoy her work in the entertainment industry, then it will be easier for her to retire. But if she is rather vested in what she does and has a tendency to bond more intimately with friends, it is possible that she will find it a little more difficult to break away permanently.

Is she addicted to a lucrative income and luxurious lifestyle?

companion who enjoys her career as a professional entertainer may find the lifestyle flattering and rewarding. If you as her new found love can match that comfort level then the strength of transitioning into marriage is strong. Such a situation does not render you a sugar daddy or her asugar baby for that matter because love forms the foundation.

Is she attached to relationships that define her escort identity?

Many companions form durable friendships with their gentlemen friends that shape their individuality as entertainers and confidantes. Much of their time spent together includes plush entertainmentand opulent travel reinforced by gentlemanly attention that nurtures and flatters their egos. While entering into a marriage by two people from any type of background can be challenging in today’s complicated world, doing so by an escort can be rigorous. Marital partners should be prepared to acknowledge awareness of each others’ pasts and be prepared to meet their respective needs to the best of their abilities. See More...

Sunday, May 4, 2014

Quieting Holiday Loneliness with a GFE

Amidst happy lovers bundled arm in arm, Christmas carols resonating throughout the city and holiday shoppers bustling at the mall quietly mingle the lonely souls of many

They show us what they want us to see: smiling faces, secure demeanors and professional composure. Yet beneath the surface dwells a state of unfulfillment in their homes. They experience lack of love and in dormant marriages that have been frozen for years. These  coexist with their wives in a barren world of monotony, mortgage payments and facades of false happiness. On a darker side, their marriages suffer from arguments or worse, fighting, separation and divorce.

Not all  are necessarily out to turn a few tricks or on a more perverse note take advantage of women as independent 

There are a lot of good men (whether single or not) who dabble in the demimonde of adult entertainment out of yearning for genuine companionship that surpasses the mere physical aspect associated with . Herein lies the reality that shatters the stigma attached to independent escorting. These men have a hunger to satisfy their needs for closeness and understanding in a loving and non judgmental environment offered by gorgeous  who believe in the .

What exactly is the girlfriend experience?

It means different things to different people. The term has evolved since its origin to the point that some independent  do not want to be associated with the acronym or any other label that might pool them with all the rest. Many  use it as a marketing tool while others genuinely offer the girlfriend experience. The modern day, successful  possesses sophisticated, psychological insight and a charismatic talent for attracting and bonding with her clients. Often times,  and become close friends, blurring the lines between paid companionship and true camaraderie. When such a relationship reaches this heightened level of intimate stability, it may stabilize into what is known as a /sugar baby arrangement or simply an ongoing tryst. See More... http://www.miamicitygirls.com/

Saturday, April 26, 2014

A Hard Look at Why Men Cheat

Science says that men cheat because they want to. But there are logical (though perhaps unacceptable to some) reasons surrounding this ‘impulse’ why a man cheats or chooses to entertain the affections of another woman when he is involved in a marriage or committed relationship. He is not necessarily a  though his sensual findings may lead him to hone his escapades into a within the world of beautiful. As human beings we are taught from a young age to mate for life. Is this natural given that the divorce rate is so high in the States?

She’s not putting out

Often, something happens in a marriage or relationship in which both parties reach a stalemate in terms of . It happens often on the woman’s side where she simply looses interest in  with her husband. It could be that she gains weight after mothering their children and feels undesirable, her husband becomes unattractive in her eyes after the newness wears off or the stress and anxiety of daily living withers away at her . While a wife may make peace within her sexless marriage, the husband may seek to quell his naturalistic needs with the girlfriend attention of a .

Underscoring your manhood

Something happens to a man when he reaches andropause, the change of life for males, the equivalent of menopause in women. In efforts to recapture his zest for life, he seeks to re-discover what once came so naturally in his virile years. There are many  or courtesans who make a huge impact in the life of a  in replenishing his self-confidence and restoring his old sense of self. Of course, there are always the likes of Viagra, cialis or levitra to aid in testosterone production which complement the sweeter side of bonding behind closed doors that shall remain unmentioned. Sugar daddies, you know who you are.

Won’t divorce until the kids are in college

In the olden days, marriage represented an idealistic notion, the fusion of two souls forever. While there are those couples who continue to perfect this crusade by the grace of God, others not so successful embrace a tangle of family and financial obligations by fulfilling their unmet carnal needs with outside sources known as independent . For many, it is simply a better socioeconomic alternative (sometimes quietly accepted by the Mrs.) to stay in a hapless marriage and seek gratification outside of wedlock until financial or family obligations justify otherwise. See More...

Monday, April 21, 2014

The Easter Bunny Wants to Entertain You!

For many of us, Easter is a time that carries sacred connotations. For others, spending moments with loved ones or frolicking on an egg hunt with the kids is what the holiday is all about. But we are talking about a different kind of Easter bunny.

We all have secular interests as well, right? Beyond the traditional, we think the new spring season is a time to partake in some erotic intimacy glittering with lots of laughter and good times.

 is rife with soft, sexy bunnies

In our world, pleasure is wild and sweet. Who needs a holiday to celebrate? Just imagine your own private gala with a prized jewel of a woman regaled in luxurious lingerie and sinfully high heels. Think of a lavish evening of living life to the hilt with a sumptuous independent ! What hobbyistwould not gain 10 years of vivacious living?

Sweet, sassy or naughty knockouts – take your pick!

Velvet kisses, flirtatious banter and scorching good looks will leave you drenched in ecstasy and deliriously wondering if you are still on this earth. Independent  at City Girls are well endowed with captivating beauty that empowers every man with a pulse.

Where does a  go to find an abundance of vibrant beauties?

Coming to City Girls is like walking into a gourmet chocolate boutique when you have an addiction to chocolate! Everyindependent  is like Christmas, Easter and Valentine’s Day wrapped all into one succulent package. After you have visually tasted them all, you just might come full circle and still be unable to make a decision! Shucks, guys. Make your life easy. If you are a first time , just call City Girls and let them arrange a date for you! See More...

Thursday, April 17, 2014

Hobbying with a Pure Conscience

Why do men seek the company of ? The reasons are many. Those women who specialize in professional provide a valuable service to gentlemen whose motivations are quite justifiable. Let us take a closer look.

The traveling business man with no time to pursue a conventional date

There are those men who travel for business and desire to be with a woman at a specific time and place. They do not have the schedule or tolerance to deal with the hassles or games associated with regular . In this case,  an independent  makes total sense. If he is paying for her time and company, then he may want her to provide desert after dinner. He can decide how he wants the evening to end. In any case, the encounter is neat, clean and organized and fits within his rigid schedule.

The married man searching for something more

He has children, family, a mortgage and a circle of close friends. Breaking the marriage is absolutely out of the question for psychological and financial reasons. He may love his wife and they might even be close friends. However, behind closed doors, the marriage suffers from neglect and dissatisfaction. There is a strong element of intimate unhappiness. As an alternative to divorce, it is much more convenient to seek the company of an  who tailors herself to his needs. Often, the relationship is one based upon companionship and deep .

The guy who wants a guaranteed good time

He can be a devilishly handsome single man, a successful and distinguished executive or a combination. He prefers to find his  online according to his list of personal specifications. He is a perfectionist when it comes to women. He expects his date to be splendidly dressed and impeccably manicured. He is aroused not only by her fabulous figure but her gracious and classy demeanor. Behind closed doors, she will do most anything to satisfy his desires. She is the epitome of  and romance. This man realizes that the benefits of  an  far exceed that of a conventional date in both time and consideration. See More...
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Monday, April 14, 2014

Categorizing the Hobbyist

From our perspective, there are all sorts of men who choose to see independent . Their reasons vary greatly.

They are not necessarily  though many do fit the ticket. Then of course, there are the exceptions that are not shaped by any mold. We thought it would be interesting to consider the types that encounters often.

New girl client

In our case, we see this  often. That’s because many of the independent  who are a part of the CG Club fall under the guise of TOFTT (Take One for The Team). They are spectacular and come highly recommended. However, they may still be considered ‘new’ to many men in the world of adult entertainment. Perhaps more common in controlled establishments ( is a private club), new girls may fall victim to the Bottom Fish Client (see below). These  may attempt to exploit the new girl and even abuse her and endanger her life. Having not been around long enough to get her ‘ wings’, she’s finished before she’s begun. Naturally,  turns their back on these types of guys. We tend to shield our independent  with as much knowledge and guidance as possible.

Married man

He chooses the company of a  not because his marriage is happy. Most often, he and his wife co-exist in a glorified roommate situation. The marriage is loveless and totally lacks . Or, the ties that bind are financial in nature and there might be children involved in a household where divorce is unconscionable. So the marriage dwells in a hapless state. This  seeks emotional, physical and psychological fulfillment from a beautiful . She is the best in her field offering  and camaraderie in a genuine capacity. It is common for these male types to be endlessly romantic, seeking the most genuine of girl friend experiences. The lines between a professional arrangement and love relationship are sometimes blurred. While he may not fit the structured definition of a , the relationship may naturally flow into a hybrid version. See More...

Connecting Deeply Through the Girl Friend Experience

Ever wonder if there are  who seek companionship for connection deeper than just a few hours of frolic? Many beautiful relationships are shared between independent  and  who seek meaning that delves beyond skin deep.

Understanding the role of a 

Many  serve different roles in diverse capacities. Spending an hour or two with a to entertain him is probably the most common. But there are  and independent  whose roles in the lives of their  friends extend far beyond a quick tryst. These ladies are well acquainted with passion. They are confidantes whether gentlemen express their deepest feelings or taboo desires. A courtesan understands the psychological composition of her client. She is nurturing in an emotional aspect. She caters to his physical needs much in the same way a massage therapist ‘feels’ the physiological needs of her patient. No matter her label, a is a master of men. Her expert tuition lovingly and compassionately nurtures his physical, emotional and psychological whims according to his needs and requests.

What circumstances lead a  to an ?

It is true that many men seek the company of an  because they want to have a good time. Motivation is different from man to man. Perhaps he is single and is looking for a thrill. He may be lonely and desire to confide in a  who pampers him and takes care of him in many ways. He might come from a troubled marriage and seek healing in total confidentiality. Perhaps his needs are of a fetish nature and he secretly desires to explore them. On a different note, there are women, girlfriends and wives with cravings to explore introduction of another woman into their relationships. In all cases, sensual openness is the main component in assisting ladies and gentlemen to understand and fulfill their needs.

Defining the deep connection

Establishing chemistry moves beyond stunning , a good time and a few laughs. There is a strong sense of openness, a flame that is ignited, a kindling of the spirits that turns a date into an ongoing affair. It might take two or three encounters to seal this kind of connection. As with any relationship, qualities build from there. As a result, there are those / interactions that evolve into /sugar baby arrangements. There are also gentlemen who re-discover  with their wives through interacting with an independent . They talk about their marriages in a therapeutic form. And there are couples who seek to explore their relationships with the guided hand of a  See More...

Sunday, April 6, 2014

A Gentleman’s Guide to Purchasing Lingerie

Gentlemen, during this Christmas season giving the gift of lingerie can be risky business. Even in the world of adult entertainment, you never know for sure if you are purchasing the appropriate garment.
Will it fit her? Will the size you choose offend her? Master both challenges during this cozy holiday season and reap the rewards. My masculine friends, City Girls is here to turn your questions into answers!
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Noir is known to please

Can you say black? It's about as safe and flattering as it gets. Think passion, drama (the good kind), and contour. Everyindependent escort loves black lingerieand has at least one piece in her collection. All at once, black is sophisticated, mysterious and sexy. Moreover, black is the best friend of every woman as it enhances shape and perfects size. No woman can ever have too much black lingerie. If your pocketbook allows, look for black silk whether lace or satin. Silk is the platinum of lingerie.

What is red hot?

A sexy cut in the right tone of red equals an irresistibly spicy piece of lingerie. However, not every independent escort is into red. We recommend purchasing red lingerie only to the hobbyist who is familiar with the likes and dislikes of his companion. Whether her style is classic, contemporary or retro, an entire ensemble should be included. One piece of red does not stand on its own so easily. Complete the look with a bra, panty, suspender and stocking combo. Getting overwhelmed, guys? Simplify your shopping with a super silky slip coupled with a pair of matching boudoir mules and be on your way. See More...

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Decoding Body Language, II

There are folks who light up a room with good energy. There are others who seem surrounded by an invisible dark cloud casting their spiritual heaviness on those around them.

If you are skeptical about the significance of body language, take this into consideration: since 1996, experts from the Pentagon have studied the body language of fifteen different prominent figures with the most recent being Vladimir Putin, his gestures and ‘Soviet face’. There are even institutions where you can get certified in body language expertise. This article is the second in a series.

The flirtatious femme fatale

It’s pretty obvious when an  is flirting with a . She will make eye contact, lean toward him, laugh and smile constantly. Due to her sensual tension, she may noticeably touch herself in subtle ways including her jewelry, neck and hair. It is quite flattering for a  when an independent  flirts with him because she gives him total affirmation that he can ‘move forward’.

The lustful paramour

Lust is an amplified version of flirtation. The situation is charged with erotic nuances in which her eye contact becomes overtly direct and her pupils dilate. Sexy movements are pronounced as she arches her back with chest protruding and legs crossed if she is sitting along with lips slightly parted. Her breath will become heavier and she will find reasons to touch him no matter where they are. For the eager , this situation is a slam dunk. She’s into him! He should respond to her actions and well, accept what is being offered.

The disinterested 

Oh dear. This is not a good situation. Without eye contact the date is grim. Further, if she crosses her arms in front of him or shows signs of awkwardness, fidgeting in an uncomfortable way, she’s faking it. If a  feels that she is subtly resisting his advances when he tries to get cozy, all bets are off that the date is going to be genuine and one that both enjoy. See More...



How to Give Gifts to an Escort


Many  find the notion of giving gifts to their  quite romantic. It could be on the first date or several dates after they have established a sense of familiarity with the same lady.

Naturally, a polite and well-mannered  will be content with the mere gesture of receiving a man’s token of affection no matter his  of choice. We have come up with some helpful tips and guidelines for -giving guys to follow in hopes of brightening their dates and the smiles of many beautiful ladies who adorn them with their presence.

How mundane are flowers,  and wine?

Although they are considered your average and most obvious gifts of choice, any one or combination is sure to please. Unless you know specifically what type of flower she favors, stick with classic and elegant red roses and . Every woman loves flowers and will be thrilled to toast to a sip of  even if she does not drink the entire glass. Some independent  are more particular about what flowers they like (orchids, tulips, lilies, etc.)

Dare to get a bit more intimate!

Giving  is always an exciting prospect which every woman can put to good use (always to the visual benefit of the  giver himself!). However, it might be a wise and safe decision to wait until after you have seen her a few times and gotten a flavor for what she likes and the sizes that she wears. Unless she informs you otherwise, black is a safe bet. Unless she clearly educates you on such lacy details, stay away from risky colors such as red, brown, burgundy, turquoise, pink and white until you know her better. Certain colors may clash with her skin tone or she simply may not favor your choice. Keep the styles simple and do your best to select sizes that you believe will fit her (um, spy on her bra and panty size when she’s not looking). See More...

Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Happiness and the Art of the GFE

The art of the  can be compared to traits of the art of the courtisanerie. In Italy during the Renaissance, the original courtesans were known as cortigiana onesta. These cortigiana were ‘honest courtesans’ in that many were regarded as intellectuals. They were well-educated, worldly and often maintained other careers. A highly refined  is an independent with traits and characteristics similar to original courtesans.

Psychology of a 

There are different layers within the  that vary from  to  and from culture to culture. A  in the truest and deepest sense hones a relationship with her client on a longer term basis. She realizes that contentment is a state of mind out of reach for some gentlemen. Therefore, his happiness becomes her focus. She specializes in all aspects that characterize a true relationship zoning in on the desires and emotional needs of her client.

Is the  fantasy or reality?

In most cases, the  experience offered by an independent  is pure fantasy. She spends an hour or two or three with her client and takes him on a euphoric ride to ecstasy. At the conclusion of their engagement, they part ways and he rides a sensual high of fulfillment with memories of her for days to come. He is surrounded by a halo of satisfaction, smiling from ear to ear. The  experience offered by the  or courtesan is expressed on a longer term basis. Time spent together spills into reality. She becomes more of a confidante, friend and even travel liaison. He comes to rely on her in certain ways further defining her role as his . She fills a void in his life, sometimes many. She completes him, bringing a sense of happiness that in some relationships can last for years. However sacrilegious this may sound to convention, his relationship with her may facilitate the continuation of his marriage and therefore the structure of his inner family. See More...

When a Hobbyist Wants to Marry an Escort

When a  engagement is carefully measured, considering all aspects of compatibility, the stage is set for explosive chemistry. Such is the scenario when a  pursues the company of a or courtesan who excels in the . Most likely, he is not looking for permanent love. But if he seeks emotional and/or psychological fulfillment or restoration from loneliness, his heart becomes vulnerable. Factor in his ’s physical splendor and charismatic personality and he becomes a bulls eye target for amour.

While this may appear as a scary question due to the nature of her work as a , what man really knows the difference in the beginning of any love relationship? Romance and matters of the heart involve powerfully blinding emotions that can skew the good judgment of anyone.

Is it really love or just infatuation?

There are no guarantees in any relationship and if there were, insurance companies would bank! There are men and women alike who come from multiple divorces, dysfunctional families, broken homes and even abusive backgrounds. Someone, please reveal the ideal formula for a marriage that does not end. Even childhood sweethearts with storybook families end up divorced. Who is to say that the/ romance cannot tie the knot and prevail indefinitely?

Is he headed down the  path?

There is a chance that if she stops working in order to devote her time exclusively to her man and their relationship, her income will vanish. Both parties must check within themselves for genuineness of their involvement. Further, supporting a partner is a financial and emotional responsibility (regardless of his net worth) which can burden the relationship if not handled openly and with clear intent. However, if turned fiancé accepts his role as main breadwinner, they are in love and  turned future wife agree, then it is not a sugar relationship. See More...

Decoding Your Fantasies

Picture the  in a tepid marriage where sparks have long disappeared. The kids have flown the nest. He loves his wife and does not believe in cheating yet cannot end the marriage due to the tangled nature of their history (mortgages, finances, friends, relatives, grandchildren, etc.). He finds himself looking at other women in ways he never did.

Fantasies provide a necessary escape from the here and now. As long as we do not become too rigid or mistake our fantasies for reality they can be entertaining, distracting and arousing. Ooh la la! The possibilities are endless, especially in the . Let us explore a few broad topics that touch (no pun intended) upon your innermost secrets.

Fantasy of the perfect love

Your days are filled with fantasies of a beautiful woman longing for your attention. You yearn for her company and attention. Rather than risk the complications and potential drama of meeting another woman in a conventional manner, you seek the company of a courtesan. Manifested, this situation is more commonly coined as the  (). The perfect love can be realized in the /sugar baby relationship when taken to the extreme between  and . In either scenario, finding that ideal match comes as close as to intimate perfection as humanly possible. While the situation may be frowned upon or even immoral in the eyes of some, your marriage stays intact while your emotional and physical needs are met.
The secretive, more perverse side of your desires
While ’ independent  tend to be deliciously ‘strawberry, vanilla swirl with whipped cream on top’ if you will, there are those gentlemen who seek ‘triple chocolate peanut butter fudge with nuts on top’, if I may. This is a sweet and sassy way of referring to the kinkier thoughts that inhabit the minds of many (yes, many). Light roll playing, perhaps a bit of fetish or dress up might flight your fancy. Now, while  stops short of classic BDSM, there are those spicy independent  who love to kick up their heels with some gentle Domination (call her your Domina or Goddess). See More... 

Monday, March 17, 2014

Psychology of a Healthy Escort

A woman chooses to become an independent  for a variety of reasons. For some readers, the first thing they think of might be the social stigma surrounding a woman who is an . Other gentlemen may read these words with nothing but fond memories of service providers (as some like to be called) who are incredible women in their eyes.

We thought it would be interesting to explore some of the more common traits of an independent  from a non  and non  point of view.

An independent  comes from a troubled childhood

This conception is probably one of the most common in conventional society and recognized among some . However, one must consider that if we took a hard look at the psychological profile of every non  in their profession what we may learn. Through the media we have been exposed to priests who are pedophiles; politicians who betray their wives, families and those who revere them; people who murder their spouses and/or children. The list goes on. The point is that most individuals in the general population do not come from storybook backgrounds. While an independent  may have grown up in a dysfunctional home, she became an adult capable of making rational decisions. However, social spotlight glares on the profession due to the intimate nature of her work, opening her to harsh criticism.

A professional dater hates men

The most obvious pre-requisites for becoming an independent  are to radiate exceptional beauty and sport a heart stopping figure. Biologically, women are wired to think with their hearts, blurring the lines between emotion and intellect. The most demanding and unspoken requirement of an independent  is an iron clad ability to maintain distinction between personal and professional feelings and conduct. The task comes easier to some than to others. She must constantly check her reality to make sure that she has not lost her balance in life. The task can be quite dangerous and draining. This is one reason why many  take breaks from their profession. They need to regroup and reclaim a sense of self. An independent  must essentially go against her biological grain and maintain distinction between professional and personal. It is a constant psychological workout. She must always remember that her persona is not really her but a distant reflection of who she is at best. When she allows reality and fantasy to mingle, she loses control not only of herself but of her business. She gets hurt. When this happens continuously, she may grow to dislike men. See More... http://miamicitygirls.com/

Thursday, January 23, 2014

Cara available this week from 9AM to 11PM. Available for in-call and out-call to Miami and Fort Lauderdale areas. Call 305-600-0269 or visit her page here http://www.miamicitygirls.com/escort/cara/ — in Miami, FL.

Sisy available this week from 9AM to 11PM. Available for in-call and out-call to Miami and Fort Lauderdale areas. Call 305-600-0269 or visit her page here http://www.miamicitygirls.com/escort/Sisy/ — in Miami, FL.