A Hard Look at Why Men Cheat

Science says that men cheat because they want to. But there are logical (though perhaps unacceptable to some) reasons surrounding this ‘impulse’ why a man cheats or chooses to entertain the affections of another woman when he is involved in a marriage or committed relationship. He is not necessarily a hobbyist though his sensual findings may lead him to hone his escapades into ahobby within the world of beautifulescorts. As human beings we are taught from a young age to mate for life. Is this natural given that the divorce rate is so high in the States?

She’s not putting out

Often, something happens in a marriage or relationship in which both parties reach a stalemate in terms of sex. It happens often on the woman’s side where she simply looses interest in intimacy with her husband. It could be that she gains weight after mothering their children and feels undesirable, her husband becomes unattractive in her eyes after the newness wears off or the stress and anxiety of daily living withers away at her libido. While a wife may make peace within her sexless marriage, the husband may seek to quell his naturalistic needs with the girlfriend attention of a companion.

Underscoring your manhood

Something happens to a man when he reaches andropause, the change of life for males, the equivalent of menopause in women. In efforts to recapture his zest for life, he seeks to re-discover what once came so naturally in his virile years. There are many companions or courtesans who make a huge impact in the life of a gentleman in replenishing his self-confidence and restoring his old sense of self. Of course, there are always the likes of Viagra, cialis or levitra to aid in testosterone production which complement the sweeter side of bonding behind closed doors that shall remain unmentioned. Sugar daddies, you know who you are.

Won’t divorce until the kids are in college

In the olden days, marriage represented an idealistic notion, the fusion of two souls forever. While there are those couples who continue to perfect this crusade by the grace of God, others not so successful embrace a tangle of family and financial obligations by fulfilling their unmet carnal needs with outside sources known as independent escorts. For many, it is simply a better socioeconomic alternative (sometimes quietly accepted by the Mrs.) to stay in a hapless marriage and seek gratification outside of wedlock until financial or family obligations justify otherwise. See More...

The Easter Bunny Wants to Entertain You!

For many of us, Easter is a time that carries sacred connotations. For others, spending moments with loved ones or frolicking on an egg hunt with the kids is what the holiday is all about. But we are talking about a different kind of Easter bunny.

We all have secular interests as well, right? Beyond the traditional, we think the new spring season is a time to partake in some erotic intimacy glittering with lots of laughter and good times.

City Girls is rife with soft, sexy bunnies

In our world, pleasure is wild and sweet. Who needs a holiday to celebrate? Just imagine your own private gala with a prized jewel of a woman regaled in luxurious lingerie and sinfully high heels. Think of a lavish evening of living life to the hilt with a sumptuous independent escort! What hobbyistwould not gain 10 years of vivacious living?

Sweet, sassy or naughty knockouts – take your pick!

Velvet kisses, flirtatious banter and scorching good looks will leave you drenched in ecstasy and deliriously wondering if you are still on this earth. Independent escorts at City Girls are well endowed with captivating beauty that empowers every man with a pulse.

Where does a hobbyist go to find an abundance of vibrant beauties?

Coming to City Girls is like walking into a gourmet chocolate boutique when you have an addiction to chocolate! Everyindependent escort is like Christmas, Easter and Valentine’s Day wrapped all into one succulent package. After you have visually tasted them all, you just might come full circle and still be unable to make a decision! Shucks, guys. Make your life easy. If you are a first time hobbyist, just call City Girls and let them arrange a date for you! See More...

Hobbying with a Pure Conscience

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Why do men seek the company of escorts? The reasons are many. Those women who specialize in professionaldating provide a valuable service to gentlemen whose motivations are quite justifiable. Let us take a closer look.

The traveling business man with no time to pursue a conventional date

There are those men who travel for business and desire to be with a woman at a specific time and place. They do not have the schedule or tolerance to deal with the hassles or games associated with regular dating. In this case, dating an independent escort makes total sense. If he is paying for her time and company, then he may want her to provide desert after dinner. He can decide how he wants the evening to end. In any case, the encounter is neat, clean and organized and fits within his rigid schedule.

The married man searching for something more

He has children, family, a mortgage and a circle of close friends. Breaking the marriage is absolutely out of the question for psychological and financial reasons. He may love his wife and they might even be close friends. However, behind closed doors, the marriage suffers from neglect and dissatisfaction. There is a strong element of intimate unhappiness. As an alternative to divorce, it is much more convenient to seek the company of an escort who tailors herself to his needs. Often, the relationship is one based upon companionship and deep intimacy.

The guy who wants a guaranteed good time

He can be a devilishly handsome single man, a successful and distinguished executive or a combination. He prefers to find his companion online according to his list of personal specifications. He is a perfectionist when it comes to women. He expects his date to be splendidly dressed and impeccably manicured. He is aroused not only by her fabulous figure but her gracious and classy demeanor. Behind closed doors, she will do most anything to satisfy his desires. She is the epitome of intimacy and romance. This man realizes that the benefits of dating an escort far exceed that of a conventional date in both time and consideration. See More...

Categorizing the Hobbyist

From our perspective, there are all sorts of men who choose to see independent escorts. Their reasons vary greatly.

They are not necessarily hobbyists though many do fit the ticket. Then of course, there are the exceptions that are not shaped by any mold. We thought it would be interesting to consider the types that City Girls encounters often.

New girl client

In our case, we see this gentleman often. That’s because many of the independent escorts who are a part of the CG Club fall under the guise of TOFTT (Take One for The Team). They are spectacular and come highly recommended. However, they may still be considered ‘new’ to many men in the world of adult entertainment. Perhaps more common in controlled establishments (City Girls is a private club), new girls may fall victim to the Bottom Fish Client (see below). These hobbyists may attempt to exploit the new girl and even abuse her and endanger her life. Having not been around long enough to get her ‘escort wings’, she’s finished before she’s begun. Naturally, City Girls turns their back on these types of guys. We tend to shield our independent escorts with as much knowledge and guidance as possible.

Married man

He chooses the company of a companion not because his marriage is happy. Most often, he and his wife co-exist in a glorified roommate situation. The marriage is loveless and totally lacks intimacy. Or, the ties that bind are financial in nature and there might be children involved in a household where divorce is unconscionable. So the marriage dwells in a hapless state. This gentleman seeks emotional, physical and psychological fulfillment from a beautiful provider. She is the best in her field offering intimacy and camaraderie in a genuine capacity. It is common for these male types to be endlessly romantic, seeking the most genuine of girl friend experiences. The lines between a professional arrangement and love relationship are sometimes blurred. While he may not fit the structured definition of a sugar daddy, the relationship may naturally flow into a hybrid version. See More...

Connecting Deeply Through the Girl Friend Experience

Ever wonder if there are hobbyists who seek companionship for connection deeper than just a few hours of frolic? Many beautiful relationships are shared between independent escorts and hobbyists who seek meaning that delves beyond skin deep.

Understanding the role of a companion

Many companions serve different roles in diverse capacities. Spending an hour or two with agentleman to entertain him is probably the most common. But there are companions and independent escorts whose roles in the lives of their hobbyist friends extend far beyond a quick tryst. These ladies are well acquainted with passion. They are confidantes whether gentlemen express their deepest feelings or taboo desires. A courtesan understands the psychological composition of her client. She is nurturing in an emotional aspect. She caters to his physical needs much in the same way a massage therapist ‘feels’ the physiological needs of her patient. No matter her label, aprovider is a master of men. Her expert tuition lovingly and compassionately nurtures his physical, emotional and psychological whims according to his needs and requests.

What circumstances lead a gentleman to an escort?

It is true that many men seek the company of an escort because they want to have a good time. Motivation is different from man to man. Perhaps he is single and is looking for a thrill. He may be lonely and desire to confide in a companion who pampers him and takes care of him in many ways. He might come from a troubled marriage and seek healing in total confidentiality. Perhaps his needs are of a fetish nature and he secretly desires to explore them. On a different note, there are women, girlfriends and wives with cravings to explore introduction of another woman into their relationships. In all cases, sensual openness is the main component in assisting ladies and gentlemen to understand and fulfill their needs.

Defining the deep connection

Establishing chemistry moves beyond stunning lingerie, a good time and a few laughs. There is a strong sense of openness, a flame that is ignited, a kindling of the spirits that turns a date into an ongoing affair. It might take two or three encounters to seal this kind of connection. As with any relationship, qualities build from there. As a result, there are those hobbyist/escort interactions that evolve into sugar daddy/sugar baby arrangements. There are also gentlemen who re-discover intimacy with their wives through interacting with an independent escort. They talk about their marriages in a therapeutic form. And there are couples who seek to explore their relationships with the guided hand of a companion.  See More...

A Gentleman’s Guide to Purchasing Lingerie

Gentlemen, during this Christmas season giving the gift of lingerie can be risky business. Even in the world of adult entertainment, you never know for sure if you are purchasing the appropriate garment.

Will it fit her? Will the size you choose offend her? Master both challenges during this cozy holiday season and reap the rewards. My masculine friends, City Girls is here to turn your questions into answers!

Lingerie

Noir is known to please

Can you say black? It's about as safe and flattering as it gets. Think passion, drama (the good kind), and contour. Everyindependent escort loves black lingerieand has at least one piece in her collection. All at once, black is sophisticated, mysterious and sexy. Moreover, black is the best friend of every woman as it enhances shape and perfects size. No woman can ever have too much black lingerie. If your pocketbook allows, look for black silk whether lace or satin. Silk is the platinum of lingerie.

What is red hot?

A sexy cut in the right tone of red equals an irresistibly spicy piece of lingerie. However, not every independent escort is into red. We recommend purchasing red lingerie only to the hobbyist who is familiar with the likes and dislikes of his companion. Whether her style is classic, contemporary or retro, an entire ensemble should be included. One piece of red does not stand on its own so easily. Complete the look with a bra, panty, suspender and stocking combo. Getting overwhelmed, guys? Simplify your shopping with a super silky slip coupled with a pair of matching boudoir mules and be on your way. See More...

Decoding Body Language, II

There are folks who light up a room with good energy. There are others who seem surrounded by an invisible dark cloud casting their spiritual heaviness on those around them.

If you are skeptical about the significance of body language, take this into consideration: since 1996, experts from the Pentagon have studied the body language of fifteen different prominent figures with the most recent being Vladimir Putin, his gestures and ‘Soviet face’. There are even institutions where you can get certified in body language expertise. This article is the second in a series.

The flirtatious femme fatale

It’s pretty obvious when an escort is flirting with a hobbyist. She will make eye contact, lean toward him, laugh and smile constantly. Due to her sensual tension, she may noticeably touch herself in subtle ways including her jewelry, neck and hair. It is quite flattering for a hobbyist when an independent escort flirts with him because she gives him total affirmation that he can ‘move forward’.

The lustful paramour

Lust is an amplified version of flirtation. The situation is charged with erotic nuances in which her eye contact becomes overtly direct and her pupils dilate. Sexy movements are pronounced as she arches her back with chest protruding and legs crossed if she is sitting along with lips slightly parted. Her breath will become heavier and she will find reasons to touch him no matter where they are. For the eager hobbyist, this situation is a slam dunk. She’s into him! He should respond to her actions and well, accept what is being offered.

The disinterested escort

Oh dear. This is not a good situation. Without eye contact the date is grim. Further, if she crosses her arms in front of him or shows signs of awkwardness, fidgeting in an uncomfortable way, she’s faking it. If a hobbyist feels that she is subtly resisting his advances when he tries to get cozy, all bets are off that the date is going to be genuine and one that both enjoy. See More...

How to Give Gifts to an Escort

Many hobbyists find the notion of giving gifts to their escorts quite romantic. It could be on the first date or several dates after they have established a sense of familiarity with the same lady.

Naturally, a polite and well-mannered companion will be content with the mere gesture of receiving a man’s token of affection no matter his gift of choice. We have come up with some helpful tips and guidelines for gift-giving guys to follow in hopes of brightening their dates and the smiles of many beautiful ladies who adorn them with their presence.

How mundane are flowers, champagne and wine?

Although they are considered your average and most obvious gifts of choice, any one or combination is sure to please. Unless you know specifically what type of flower she favors, stick with classic and elegant red roses and champagne. Every woman loves flowers and will be thrilled to toast to a sip of champagne even if she does not drink the entire glass. Some independent escorts are more particular about what flowers they like (orchids, tulips, lilies, etc.)

Dare to get a bit more intimate!

Giving lingerie is always an exciting prospect which every woman can put to good use (always to the visual benefit of the gift giver himself!). However, it might be a wise and safe decision to wait until after you have seen her a few times and gotten a flavor for what she likes and the sizes that she wears. Unless she informs you otherwise, black is a safe bet. Unless she clearly educates you on such lacy details, stay away from risky colors such as red, brown, burgundy, turquoise, pink and white until you know her better. Certain colors may clash with her skin tone or she simply may not favor your choice. Keep the styles simple and do your best to select sizes that you believe will fit her (um, spy on her bra and panty size when she’s not looking). See More...