Decoding Your Fantasies

Picture the hobbyist in a tepid marriage where sparks have long disappeared. The kids have flown the nest. He loves his wife and does not believe in cheating yet cannot end the marriage due to the tangled nature of their history (mortgages, finances, friends, relatives, grandchildren, etc.). He finds himself looking at other women in ways he never did.

Fantasies provide a necessary escape from the here and now. As long as we do not become too rigid or mistake our fantasies for reality they can be entertaining, distracting and arousing. Ooh la la! The possibilities are endless, especially in the hobby. Let us explore a few broad topics that touch (no pun intended) upon your innermost secrets.

Fantasy of the perfect love

Your days are filled with fantasies of a beautiful woman longing for your attention. You yearn for her company and attention. Rather than risk the complications and potential drama of meeting another woman in a conventional manner, you seek the company of a courtesan. Manifested, this situation is more commonly coined as the girl friend experience (GFE). The perfect love can be realized in the sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship when taken to the extreme between hobbyist and companion. In either scenario, finding that ideal match comes as close as to intimate perfection as humanly possible. While the situation may be frowned upon or even immoral in the eyes of some, your marriage stays intact while your emotional and physical needs are met.

The secretive, more perverse side of your desires

While City Girls’ independent escorts tend to be deliciously ‘strawberry, vanilla swirl with whipped cream on top’ if you will, there are those gentlemen who seek ‘triple chocolate peanut butter fudge with nuts on top’, if I may. This is a sweet and sassy way of referring to the kinkier thoughts that inhabit the minds of many (yes, many). Light roll playing, perhaps a bit of fetish or dress up might flight your fancy. Now, while City Girls stops short of classic BDSM, there are those spicy independent escorts who love to kick up their heels with some gentle Domination (call her your Domina or Goddess). See More... 

Psychology of a Healthy Escort

A woman chooses to become an independent escort for a variety of reasons. For some readers, the first thing they think of might be the social stigma surrounding a woman who is an escort. Other gentlemen may read these words with nothing but fond memories of service providers (as some like to be called) who are incredible women in their eyes.

We thought it would be interesting to explore some of the more common traits of an independent escort from a non escort and non hobbyist point of view.

An independent escort comes from a troubled childhood

This conception is probably one of the most common in conventional society and recognized among some hobbyists. However, one must consider that if we took a hard look at the psychological profile of every non escort in their profession what we may learn. Through the media we have been exposed to priests who are pedophiles; politicians who betray their wives, families and those who revere them; people who murder their spouses and/or children. The list goes on. The point is that most individuals in the general population do not come from storybook backgrounds. While an independent escort may have grown up in a dysfunctional home, she became an adult capable of making rational decisions. However, social spotlight glares on the profession due to the intimate nature of her work, opening her to harsh criticism.

A professional dater hates men

The most obvious pre-requisites for becoming an independent escort are to radiate exceptional beauty and sport a heart stopping figure. Biologically, women are wired to think with their hearts, blurring the lines between emotion and intellect. The most demanding and unspoken requirement of an independent escort is an iron clad ability to maintain distinction between personal and professional feelings and conduct. The task comes easier to some than to others. She must constantly check her reality to make sure that she has not lost her balance in life. The task can be quite dangerous and draining. This is one reason why many companions take breaks from their profession. They need to regroup and reclaim a sense of self. An independent escort must essentially go against her biological grain and maintain distinction between professional and personal. It is a constant psychological workout. She must always remember that her persona is not really her but a distant reflection of who she is at best. When she allows reality and fantasy to mingle, she loses control not only of herself but of her business. She gets hurt. When this happens continuously, she may grow to dislike men. See More... http://miamicitygirls.com/

Cara available this week from 9AM to 11PM. Available for in-call and out-call to Miami and Fort Lauderdale areas. Call 305-600-0269 or visit her page here http://www.miamicitygirls.com/escort/cara/ — in Miami, FL.

Sisy available this week from 9AM to 11PM. Available for in-call and out-call to Miami and Fort Lauderdale areas. Call 305-600-0269 or visit her page here http://www.miamicitygirls.com/escort/Sisy/ — in Miami, FL.

City Girls Christmas Holiday is Approaching

‘Tis the season when we begin to pack it up and head out for a few weeks of joyous celebration. But we never forget about our VIP members and lovely independent escorts!

Friends and readers, please know that all the folks at City Girls will be on holiday from December 21^st through January 6^th. However, appointments may still be scheduled via internet through our secure website. read more...

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